I'm thrilled to have Jody Hedlund on my blog today. Not only is she an incredible author, but she's also been a huge encouragement to me in my writing journey. You can read about Jody's new book below (and enter to win a free copy! Yah!) I've read the book and literally could not put it down. You DO NOT want to miss out on this awesome opportunity! So...without further ado, here's Jody sharing with us about her greatest fear.
Secret #14: My
biggest fear
By Jody Hedlund, @JodyHedlund
No I'm not afraid of the dark—never really have been. And
I'm not afraid of spiders, or mice, or bees, or snakes, or anything that creeps
and crawls.
I'm not afraid of too
many things. I try to keep my focus on today and not let the worries of
tomorrow overwhelm me. There are just so many things to worry us including
terrorists, droughts, chemicals in food, the national debt, etc. Quite frankly,
if we let ourselves dwell on all of the problems out there in the world, we'd
live in constant fear.
Nevertheless, I do have one thing that scares me the most—and that's skin cancer.
To the average person, fear of skin cancer may seem like a silly fear. But for a fair-skinned, red-headed girl like me, skin cancer is a very real threat. In fact, my grandfather died of melanoma when I was in college, when I was still blissfully unaware of the dangers of sun-tanning.
I was one of those foolish, vain young ladies who purposefully slathered her skin with baby oil and laid out in the sun in order to get a tan—which as you might guess for me was more of a deep red burn. I regret all the many years I abused my skin and exposed myself to the sun's harmful rays.
Now I've become the mom who now slathers her kids with enough sun-screen to turn them into walking mummies. Well, not quite that bad. But I do have a slight paranoia about them getting sunburned. So they are well covered in strong, water-resistant sun block. And I buy them swim shirts to wear when they'll be out in the sun for prolonged time.
And if you ever visit a pool and see the dorky woman in a wide-brimmed hat and long sleeve shirt sitting on the edge of the pool with her feet in the water—you'll know that's me. Or I'll be reading under the shade of a table umbrella.
While I do all I can to wisely protect myself and my kids from the sun, I've also had to slowly let go of my fear. I'm getting better at not freaking-out when one of my kids gets sunburned. And I'm realizing that worrying about cancer won't prevent it or cause it.
Our days are numbered. God won't take us before our time is up. And no amount of fretting will add or subtract more from our time.
What about you? What's your biggest fear?
Publisher's Weekly calls Unending
Devotion "A meaty tale of life amid the debauchery of the lumber camps
of 1880s Michigan . . . exciting and unpredictable to the very end."
To celebrate the release of Unending Devotion, Jody is giving away a signed copy. Leave a comment (along with your email address) to enter the drawing. Valid only with US or Canadian addresses. Giveaway ends: Oct 1st.
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Thanks for sharing this, Jody!
ReplyDeleteSmiling about this part: 'slathers her kids with enough sun-screen to turn them into walking mummies' That's what any protective mommy would do!
Well, I don't have in mind one huge, constant fear that I have... but I'm afraid of heights. Anyone else? *grin*
Bless you ladies, Jody and Lindsey for this post and the giveaway!
:-)
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Thanks for sharing. I was a 'slather in oil and bake in the sun' girl too. I now know better. When we go to the beach, my children all know that they will not get away from me until every exposable inch of skin is sprayed with sunblock...even my older ones! :)
ReplyDeleteMy biggest fear is probably something happening to one of my children. Even at home, when my 6yo doesn't answer up immediately when I call for him to come in from outside, I feel a panicky feeling in my stomach. And we live on the family farm way out in the countryside, so it's not like we have lots of strangers traipsing up and down our road! I do pray for the Lord to protect and hold each of my children (and my husband) in His loving hands...and I trust Him. I know He'll give us grace to face whatever comes our way. But still...it's something I have to lay at His feet constantly.
Thanks for sharing, and thanks to Lindsey for hosting!
Blessings,
Amy O'Quinn
oquinn1(at)windstream(dot)net
Thanks so much for sharing on my blog today, Jody! My greatest fear, probably the same as Amy's-that something will happen to my children. I'm also afraid that something will happen to my husband or me and we won't be able to see our children grow up. Scary...
ReplyDeleteMy biggest fear is losing a loved one. Accidents can happen any day but in particular I've been afraid because heart disease runs quite heavily in my mom's family. She has borderline high blood pressure but not wanting to depend on medications, she has attempted to change her lifestyle and I as well as one of my sisters have made drastic changes also not only for ourselves but also to support our mom. Over the past several months our mom has lost at least 10 pounds and her blood pressure has gone down without the use of medication!
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DeleteGood morning, everyone!! I'm glad I'm not the only one who slathers her kids in sunscreen! :-) And I agree, I'm also afraid of something happening to one of my kids. I just can't imagine the pain and heartache of losing a child!
ReplyDeleteI'm a flaming redhead as well, hence my blog name. But MY biggest fear is being on a hydro-electric dam. Have you ever been on one when the turbines are open???? A close second is being up close to an ocean going supertanker. I grew in Vancouver and have had occasional to go sailing in English Bay (Vancouver Harbour). I nearly fainted when we got up beside one.
ReplyDeleteI had to go below deck and lie down.
Please don't enter me, as I've already won a copy of Jody's book.
You're sharing such an interesting variety of 'secrets' on this tour, Jody! Having dealt with cancer I know its scariness. The possibility of recurrence is always in the back of my mind and yet it's not a 'fear'. What undoes me is claustrophobia... suddenly not being able to catch my breath in an elevator or when caught in a crowd. We are admonished to bring our fears to the Lord so I don't dwell on this; I pray in those moments and always manage to get through them. And experience has taught me to recognize when I'm most vulnerable and to sidestep situations that might immobilize me.
ReplyDelete(Don't enter me in the draw because I already have all of Jody's books.)
Great post --especially that last part! Call me a stereotypical oldest child, but my biggest fear is a fear of failure, or letting myself and/or others down. It can have positive aspects, but there's a very fine line to trod to keep it from overwhelming you ...
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